The Politics of Food

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by Kellie McRae |

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I discovered the magic of vegetables by mistake. When I started exhibiting lupus symptoms, I could not stand for long periods, and just walking across a room meant I’d have to sleep the rest of the day. To avoid starving, I bought fresh fruits and veggies and would grab an apple or a carrot on my way to lie down after using the bathroom. Eventually, I noticed a surge in my energy and a reduction of my pain levels, so I started guiding my food choices more toward being a vegetarian. After a while, if I ate meat, my body would be extremely unhappy — it seemed it was ready for the switch.

I held on to things like eggs, cheese (because it’s yummy), and probiotic-heavy yogurt for my smoothies. After research, I eventually left the yogurt behind and now rarely eat cheese. I’ve kept the eggs because they are easy to prepare. Now, I am working toward becoming fully plant-based. I have two eggs left at the time of this writing and I won’t buy anymore after that.

A vegetarian quesadilla. Eggs and cheese on this one. (All photos by Kellie McRae)

I’ve started sharing my journey on social media (because I live my life there) with the thought that perhaps I can document how it goes for me and maybe help someone else figure diet out, too. The point of what I am doing is not to tell you what to do or how to eat. In fact, it’s kind of the opposite. I admitted to eggs and cheese because I want people to know that things may be bad for us though we still want them. When battling an autoimmune disease, we seem to feel guilty about things beyond our control. I want people to know that you don’t have to get it perfect and you don’t have to feel guilty about it.

As I go about my journey, I’m finding that food is almost as volatile a subject as politics and religion. I post pictures, and maybe it’s me feeling sensitive, but when people say, “Should you be eating tomatoes, peppers, or white rice?” I will often reply that everyone is different so you should do what works for you. But what I really want to say is, “Don’t you see it on my plate?”

A plant-based fajita bowl with tomatoes, red, yellow, and green bell peppers, portobello mushrooms, and some jalapeño slices. I paid for this one with a few more aches.

I also hear a lot about what some food guru or Facebook-famous doctor has to say.

Here’s what I want anyone reading this column to know: We are all different, much like the way the disease affects us all differently. We must not take general information as gospel. It may be good information but it also might not apply to you. I keep a food diary to note how I felt before I eat something new or with a new combination. And I pay attention to how I feel a few hours later or even a few days later. If I had something new today and nothing new tomorrow and then I feel bad, I look back at the new item. When I feel better, I will try the new item again to see if there is a repeating pattern. This is how I know what I can and cannot eat.

Some people won’t eat any nightshades. I won’t eat white potatoes and eggplant. I can eat certain types of tomatoes, and I like bell peppers so much that they are like cheese. They cause me some aching but they taste good, so I sign on for those aches.

I hope you will add more plants to your plate. Remember, sometimes I suffer due to some of my food choices, so do what is best for you.


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CMS Sanders

I so appreciate your posts and point of view. Yes , we are ll different and have to do what works for us. When I was young I was sent to an allergist. I tested positive for some food allergies. He put me on what he called a "cavemen" diet. Eating only those few things that most people are NOT allergic to . Then after a week I was to add I food I was allergic to for 3 days. And he said eat a lot of it. So, for example eggs was on my list . So he said eat 6 eggs or more per day and write in your diary what you ate and the symptoms it produced. So, after reading your column I may do this for the so called "offending" foods for Lupus and log my results. As a side note I found when I was not feeling well I did not eat as well. I think poor nutrition makes my Lupus worse. Thanks again for your fresh point of view.
Wishing you the best,

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Kellie McRae

Hi Chris, I like that term for the elimination phase, the caveman period lol I am actually looking forward to doing this. The first time I did it, I hated it but it seems that even water gives me heartburn and indigestion so if I can figure out what I should be eating, perhaps I will feel better like you mentioned. If you decide to do the caveman thing again, please come and share what you learned. We are all so different that its interesting to see what works for some and to compare some notes. Thanks for sharing.

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Great post! Thank you so much. Food really is like politics. When I am invited to my sisters house for Carbonara, the only part I can eat is the water that the pasta is boiled in BEFORE adding the pasta. Hahahaha. They get so offended! I just agree now to bring the salad for everyone and have two helpings of salad. In it is all the yummies that I can eat. Like almonds, pears, raisins, different lettuces and lots of ruccola and tomatoes, succhini etc...dressing made with tahini...sometimes I throw in some quinoa...whatever I have that I can safely eat. The salad turns out SO good, that I get tons of compliments and it’s better than the Carbonara most of the time!
There are ways to help yourself stick to a special eating regimen in the face of family and friends. It just takes more planning.

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Kellie McRae

I got hungry just from the description of that salad, lol Share! Yummy! Fortunately, my friends and family actually respect what I eat but sharing on social even just a picture of a meal creates controversy. It's strange to me that people could get so passionate not about what THEY are eating but about what YOU are eating. I guess they don't realize that they are doing their best to make that decision for you but would never want someone making it for them. Food is a trigger for many of us and if I can find a way to eat and feel better, sign me up. can I get you to ship me this salad? :-)


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