In dark moments with lupus, promise that you’ll fight for yourself
It’s so easy to jump on the woe-is-me, this-isn’t-fair, what-did-I-do-to-deserve-this bandwagon and shout, kick, and scream at the awful “bad luck” and horrible timing of chronic, incurable sickness.  Feeling like a victim and falling into grief can seem inescapable when unprovoked pain, flares of skin rashes, hair…