Friends and Strangers Kept Me Sane While I Was Hospitalized

Friends and Strangers Kept Me Sane While I Was Hospitalized
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When I recently was admitted to the hospital, I had no idea it would be for two weeks. But after hearing the list of reasons for my admission, I understood that it would take a while. I had planned to be in the States for a routine four-day visit, and I was not prepared for a long hospital stay.

There’s not much to do in a hospital room except watch TV. The hospital has internet access on the televisions, but it’s wonky to navigate. You can’t enlarge the screen — my glasses needed glasses — and it’s mounted so high that you risk straining your neck while looking between it and the weird keyboard.

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The hospital’s “weird” keyboard. (Photo by Kellie McRae)

Friends arranged for me to borrow a laptop, which is what I’m using to write this column, and I sought help on social media to keep me sane. I normally do not ask for donations, but I knew that I would not be OK if left with the programming on television. I needed a positive and therapeutic outlet.

I requested jewelry-making materials from my Amazon Wish List. I had started teaching myself this skill before I left home, and I knew I could do it from my hospital bed. When I found out my stay would include four weeks in a 24-hour rehabilitation center, I hoped jewelry making would help to keep my sanity levels in check.

I expected that a few local friends would place orders and bring them to me when they visited the hospital. What actually happened made my heart swell with joy.

I got jewelry-making supplies from people all over the world.

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People from all over the world sent supplies after I requested them on social media. (Photo by Kellie McRae)

I was humbled by the boxes and envelopes that arrived from many wonderful people and places. I haven’t yet been able to thank everyone who contributed. A friend even brought a caddie on wheels so that I could house my new supplies.

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A friend gifted me with a rolling caddie for my new supplies. (Photo by Kellie McRae)

When I arrived at the rehabilitation center, the nurses and staff members commented that I never seemed to watch TV. For me, the TV is a box that constantly spouts negativity, violence, and pain. I have enough pain. I chose to spend hours writing, watching how-to and comedy videos, and making jewelry. I also learned to use my mobility device, along with new exercises to help me function at home.

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This necklace was a challenge to make. (Courtesy of Kellie McRae)
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This ear cuff was an even bigger challenge. (Courtesy of Kellie McRae)

I am looking forward to being home and honing my new hobby. I am returning with a new outlook on life. Sometimes, it is a challenge to keep smiling when battling your body. But seeing the support I have from all over the world makes it hard for me not to be joyful and grateful.

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Kellie “Hurricane” McRae has been dubbed a force of nature. She’s the mother of 2 adults who know she is a force to be reckoned with. Diagnosed with Lupus in February 2016 after multiple hospital stays that had her saying her goodbyes to her family & writing her will she became a very vocal advocate. She has openly shared via Periscope what she calls coping while scoping and has helped many who got a fresh diagnosis as well as those who have been battling for a while. Kellie has taken on the idea that food is medicine and shares frequently the chemical ingredients found in some foods and she also shares recipe’s for great food. Food is medicine is part of her philosophy. After Lupus forced her to walk away from a 17 year career in Real Estate, she began an online business helping others go from “Coping to Cash flow” because not everyone gets approved for disability and still need to pay bills despite the unpredicatable issues that Lupus causes.
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Kellie “Hurricane” McRae has been dubbed a force of nature. She’s the mother of 2 adults who know she is a force to be reckoned with. Diagnosed with Lupus in February 2016 after multiple hospital stays that had her saying her goodbyes to her family & writing her will she became a very vocal advocate. She has openly shared via Periscope what she calls coping while scoping and has helped many who got a fresh diagnosis as well as those who have been battling for a while. Kellie has taken on the idea that food is medicine and shares frequently the chemical ingredients found in some foods and she also shares recipe’s for great food. Food is medicine is part of her philosophy. After Lupus forced her to walk away from a 17 year career in Real Estate, she began an online business helping others go from “Coping to Cash flow” because not everyone gets approved for disability and still need to pay bills despite the unpredicatable issues that Lupus causes.

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