A routine visit with my primary care doctor turned into the biggest reality check of my life. It led to a two-week hospital stay followed by a move to a 24-hour rehabilitation center where my weak immune system required full isolation.
Life seems to build up armor before the battle. I have been home alone so much that I welcome the isolation. Perhaps the time I’ve spent by myself has prepared me for this.
In October 2016, I sold everything I owned and left the U.S. in search of affordable and quality healthcare. I have not lived inside its borders since. My sole reason for leaving was my healthcare; I needed to advocate for myself.
Over the past four years, I have come to feel as if my body will continue to create new issues, and I will never have relief from the pain. I do my best to control what I can and let go of the rest. Because of this, I was not seeing my doctors regularly. I figured, “Why bother?” I thought they would only give me more steroids or another treatment that would cause side effects but no relief.
It was a foolish philosophy on my part. I refused help, not just from my doctors, but from anyone. I thought I would look weak if I asked for or accepted help. I convinced myself that I could power through this if I were determined enough.
Then I went to the U.S. for a routine primary care visit to ensure my veterans benefits didn’t lapse.
Whenever someone would ask me why I lived outside the country, I would tell them it was because of the poor care I had received here. But my 14-day stay at the James A. Haley Veterans’ Hospital in Tampa, Florida, was nothing short of amazing. When I was admitted, many of the staff said they remembered me. I suspected my history as a squeaky wheel was a factor in the excellent care I was receiving. But the staff told me there had been a culture shift and everyone was benefiting from it. I told one of the fantastic nurses who cared for me that if I’d received this level of care when I was trying to get answers, I might not have left the U.S.
On my last stay, I complained to administrators. This time, I am putting together a glowing letter to provide a written record of how well I was treated at this hospital. I don’t think my experience was unique. I saw nurses who cared about their patients and co-workers and who are honored to serve those who served. I cried when I left — who does that?
Hospital stays are more difficult when you are not being heard and your concerns are being disregarded. I felt none of that. I am glad I experienced healthcare the way it should be done.
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