There are so many things that make America a wonderful place to live. However, after I was diagnosed with lupus I felt as if the U.S. was not the best place for me to remain because of the healthcare I was receiving. For months I went to many specialists who were doing their absolute best to figure out what was wrong with me. As a Desert Storm veteran, the U.S. Department of Veteran Affairs (VA) was one of the first options available to me. It became evident that the system there was overworked.
While I was in the early stages of my illness, I was fortunate enough also to have insurance through my employer. This allowed me the ability to go to a “civilian hospital” to get care. It was during this time that I started to realize healthcare in the U.S. is simply overwhelmed. Regardless if you are a veteran, getting the personalized care that would help make you feel better was just not possible.
My primary care doctor informed me the sun was not good for my condition. During this time I also was so low on energy that just speaking would be cause for a few hours sleep. Walking up the stairs became an increasingly difficult task. Out the window went my career in real estate. My doctor even suggested that I should seek disability. Of course, this was not the news I wanted to hear. I actually enjoyed what I did for a living. I took great pride and pleasure in it. The idea of going on disability was frightening to me. I started researching what disability would entail for my life and my care.
I have always had the desire to retire abroad, and wondered if I should leave the U.S. to seek better treatment options. I began looking at quality of life, healthcare access, quality of healthcare and the costs of an international move. It can be quite expensive, but I had some savings and a modest residual income. The more I researched, the more determined I was to find my care outside the U.S.
I stumbled upon Thailand. I had never had any part of Asia on my travel bucket list, and here I was working on figuring out how to move without so much as a visit. Lupus is so prevalent in both blacks and Asians that the doctors in Thailand receive extensive training on the disease. Nearly any doctor in Thailand can treat you because they are well-versed in the disease. The major hospital in Bangkok (ranked in the top 10 in the world,) has a lupus specialist. I checked off the concern about the quality of the care that I would receive. Many of the doctors are trained not only in their own country, but are also in the U.S.
I started wondering about the language and the quality of life in Thailand. I felt as if my transition would be less stressful because many people in Thailand speak some English (especially in larger cities). Some of the homes also are quite modern. (See accompanying photo.) There is a tiny kitchen and a very modern bathroom with a rain shower. The building has on-site laundry, a small convenience store, a coffee shop and a yoga studio. The rent is $280 per month. It costs roughly around $9 to have the apartment cleaned (three ladies show up). Laundry service typically runs between $3 to $9 depending on how many loads are being washed, dried and folded.
After all my research, I felt that the quality of life would be good for me in Thailand. My next concern was the cost of the care. Would I be able to afford the long-term care that lupus requires? I was surprised to learn that you can receive an estimate of how much a doctor’s visit will cost if you are able to provide them with the details of why you are booking an appointment. They take into account the reason for your visit, like a chronic illness, along with your required tests and time needed with the doctor, so you’ll know ahead of time what your expenses will be. I’ve never had this experience in the U.S., and often felt like figuring out what an insurance company will and will not pay for was enough to make my head spin.
I eventually sold my belongings after reviewing all of the pros and cons of moving to Thailand. As soon as I could walk and talk at the same time, I moved. The transition has been quite smooth. The first week after I arrived I was hospitalized for four days. It was during this time that I learned first-hand about the quality and cost of care. The bill for my four-day hospitalization came and I created a video showing the costs. It was the only time I had ever been excited about a bill because it was mere pennies compared to what it would have costed in the U.S.
The decision to leave the U.S. was not an easy one. There have been moments of loneliness because I moved to a place where I have no friends or family. I spent the Christmas holiday with virtual strangers, but I am adjusting. I would say that my expectations have been exceeded.
As you may know, stress is a trigger for lupus. Thailand is a country that truly practices “don’t sweat the small stuff” and it rubs off. My stress has melted away and almost everywhere you look, there are beautiful flowers. Since being here I have experienced low stress from quality of care, low stress from cost of care and low stress from just a low-stress society. Moving to Thailand was a great plan for me.
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