We’ve all heard it. “But you don’t look sick.” There’s also “You still look good,” “That weight looks good on you (or off you),” and “I couldn’t tell you were that sick.” For quite some time, conversations among people living with lupus, which I have, or other chronic illnesses…
Celebrate With Me — Candace Semien

Lupus is not a butterfly experience for Candace J. Semien. It is a continuous wolf attack. She lives with lupus and Sjogren’s syndrome — which, she says, are not badges of survivor honor but a harsh reality. She infuses diversity into the growing lupus awareness and advocacy megaphone.
A journalist by nature, she pulls and prods for ways to live purposefully while having limited abilities and dis-abilities. Through this column, Candace asks hard questions about lupus and shares answers that will improve the lives of people living with chronic, autoimmune diseases while encouraging honest and bold patient-family-doctor relationships.
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