Hurricane in Heels — a Column by Kellie McRae

September 16, 2019September 12, 2019

Sorry, Not Sorry: Apologies Tame the Hurricane

Columns, Hurricane in Heels -- a Column by Kellie McRae

I’m sure you realize that someone who has been dubbed a “hurricane” is pretty unapologetic. Forces of nature sweep in, do what they do, and sweep out, never looking ... Read more

September 9, 2019September 3, 2019

Lupus Is Not an Award, but I’ll Accept It

Columns, Hurricane in Heels -- a Column by Kellie McRae

Three years ago, I embarked on a journey of knowledge and hard work that has taken me around the world. It changed my life, and I’d like to thank ... Read more

August 26, 2019August 21, 2019

Could I Still Be in Denial About My Lupus Diagnosis?

Columns, Hurricane in Heels -- a Column by Kellie McRae

I woke up this morning and had to talk myself out of bed. I prepared my laundry for pickup, but then needed to lie down to catch my breath. ... Read more

August 19, 2019August 14, 2019

People Offer Help, but I Still Feel Like a Burden

Columns, Hurricane in Heels -- a Column by Kellie McRae

When the doctor called and gave me the news of my diagnosis, I honestly felt that with a few meds, I’d be OK. As I look back on it ... Read more

August 12, 2019August 8, 2019

Being Strong Is Knowing When You Need Help

Columns, Hurricane in Heels -- a Column by Kellie McRae

I pride myself on being a strong person. Over the years, however, my definition of strength has changed dramatically. When I was growing up in Chicago’s inner city, being ... Read more

August 5, 2019July 31, 2019

How I Keep Holding On to My Optimism

Columns, Hurricane in Heels -- a Column by Kellie McRae

I think that whenever someone gets a life-changing medical diagnosis, their attitude is, “I’m going to beat it.” I could be wrong, but all the movies I’ve watched back ... Read more

July 29, 2019July 25, 2019

Battling the Loneliness Brought on by Lupus

Columns, Hurricane in Heels -- a Column by Kellie McRae

Learning a new skill is not easy. But you have an incentive to practice if it’s something you enjoy or find to be beneficial. I’m working on coping with ... Read more

July 22, 2019July 18, 2019

Speaking on Spirituality and the Opinions of Others

Columns, Hurricane in Heels -- a Column by Kellie McRae

At one point when I was growing up, church was a fact of life. I learned that people tend to look to spiritual things more when life becomes difficult, ... Read more

July 15, 2019July 10, 2019

From Useless to Usefulness: I Realize I’m Still Helping Others

Columns, Hurricane in Heels -- a Column by Kellie McRae

I was a workaholic; I don’t have a hard time admitting that. Part of me was proud of my work ethic — after all, I was dubbed “Hurricane” because ... Read more

July 8, 2019July 1, 2019

Would I Give Lupus Back If I Could?

Columns, Hurricane in Heels -- a Column by Kellie McRae

Living abroad was something I always wanted to do. When you move abroad, it seems people are a bit fascinated with you, and when you move abroad with health ... Read more