Through the time that surrounds the day that confirmed my lupus diagnosis, there is one thing that stands out clearly. As my nephrologist explained what lupus was and the different treatment options that were available, he introduced a phrase that will stay with me forever. He stated that, in terms of this particular chronic illness, I “had won the lupus lottery.”
He explained that the majority of lupus patients live with it for years before their health deteriorates to the point where they seek help, get a diagnosis, and start treatment. And in many cases of lupus nephritis, the disease has inhabited the kidneys undiagnosed for such a long period of time that it has often caused chronic, irreversible damage.
Compared to his worst-case scenario, I was young and active, had been diagnosed early. And, though my condition was acute, I had no chronic damage to my kidneys. As far as lupus goes, it was pretty much the best possible outcome. There were millions of tickets out there and somehow I turned out to be one of the lucky ones who held a winner.
The image that runs through my head when I picture winning the lottery carries significantly more elation and joy. Winning the lupus lottery is a cause for celebration, but only in the sense that there was the potential to wear so much more of a loss.
Essentially, what I won was time. Time to adjust my lifestyle and learn to live with lupus as a new and constant fixture. Time to experiment with different types of treatment and to work out what works in combatting my lupus specifically. Time to try to see if I could make the natural advantages of youth, like more energy and physical resilience, work in my favor.
I’m often left feeling torn. Compared to so many people out there, I’m aware of how easy my experience with lupus is. Yet somehow, I still don’t feel like I’m really winning.
Regardless of how well it all started out, in the long run, this is still likely to be my fate for the rest of my life. I apparently won the lottery, and yet a year-and-a-half into treatment, we’re still uncertain of the best course of treatment.
While being young has made it easier in some aspects, it also makes it harder in others. It’s harder because I’m hoping to have decades in front of me, yet they’ll likely be filled with health problems either from lupus or consequences from side effects of all the drugs I’ve used to treat it. The longer I’ll have lived, the more medication I will have taken to keep me alive. And there will be repercussions.
In truth, winning the lupus lottery is not really winning. It’s just being handed the lesser of all the evils available. It’s still just as devastating, heartbreaking, and isolating as every other case of lupus.
Unfortunately, when it comes to this evil disease there aren’t any winners. There is only the strength to fight back, the defiance to stick it to lupus any chance I get, and the choice to live life on my terms.
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